gaaah! she's all screwed up! HELP! solidoodle 3 (Page 1 of 2)

You will need to provide a little more detail to get good help here.  I would start by checking your printer shape in repetier and making sure it physically matches the printer.  Make sure everything is homing in the right direction, too.  If you think a rod is bent, take it out and roll it along a known flat surface like a piece of glass to see if you can see any bend in it.  I think it is unlikely UPS handled it rough enough to bend a steel rod but it is easy to knock something out of calibration.

and sorry, i don't know how it managed to double post

What rods and bearings did the person add to it?  Pro tip: don't ever buy a printer off ebay without seeing a youtube video of the actual machine running.  Picture's don't tell the whole story.  Today's printers, and especially the cheaper ones like the solidoodle, will require a lot of tuning, calibration, and cursing and frustration.  Many of us have found that the real hobby is maintaining the machine, not printing with it!  Really, if you are not interested in this then 3D printing might not be for you.  Nothing wrong with that.  Check back in a few years and there is likely to be a new generation of machines that are, hopefully, not as frustrating. 

Anyway, rods, bearings and belts have to be just right.  If they are too loose, too tight, or in any way unevenly spaced, you are going to have a bad time.  Is it the X or Y axis that is giving you trouble?  Y belt tension is a very common issue, check out the posts on that here.  X is a little more forgiving.

let me post some pics of it, not really sure exactly what he used

That's a good set up so someone took the time to do some upgrades.  Just have to take it one problem at a time but you should end up with a very nice machine.

ok, so I am seeing that when the x axis tries to home it goes to the left, problem is the end stop switch for the x axis is on the right so it does not stop going  and I have to hit the kill motor button, so how do I make x axis go right instead of left?
I tried to just move the switch but the plastic was wanting to split when I was putting a screw in so I will have to do it in the software

It sounds like whoever put your Lawsy carriage together might have put the back piece on the front, reversing the movement, or put the belt on the wrong way.  Double check vs the sticky post over in hacks. 

There are also homing direction options in Repetier that you could change but if you try to fool the printer by telling it to go the opposite direction, it could end of mirroring your prints, or worse.

If it was working fine before, this would not be the first time someone has claimed a stepper motor has spontaneously changed directions.  It has to do with the way 2 of the 4 wires are hooked into the board... and magic.

Also, where is your filament feeding from?  That first pic looks wierd.

ok, x is backwards
y is right, forward click moves it forward back moves it back
and z is backwards,  up is down and down moves it up
my fan is super buzzy to, if I tap on it a few times it quites down and runs right

what I see is the the belt adjustment screws are on the back part of the carriage underneath the carriage between the rails, and the belt is to the front, I don't see any other way it could go being it is printed with the adjustment screw holes to the rear

OK, your carriage is on backwards.  Don't worry this is an easy fix and probably why they sold it.
How's your ability to tinker?  It really is as simple as flipping it around but you have to take that carriage apart.  Meaning the motor has to come off.  That carriage is Lawsy's design and very easy to work with.  Start by taking the belt off and your filament out.  Then just take off the MK-5 (the part that holds the nozzle).

the pic came out upside down somehow,  LOL