The problem you're currently having (uneven heating) might go away with the larger heater pad, but I doubt it.
I went through 3 silicon pads, and the only time they provided even heat distribution was when I replaced the aluminum surface with a pure copper surface.
The copper surface was great, but it's very expensive. A plate 8"x8"x1/8" cost about $50, and weighs about 3 pounds. However, even with a high capacity silicone pad , and with a 750W power supply, it still takes 10+ minutes to get the surface up to 95°C. I'm not talking about when Repetier tells you it reached 95°C, that takes about 5 minutes, but when the whole surface is heated up evenly.
On the other hand, a PCB heater will heat up evenly, and very fast. I'm now using a MK2A heater, and it gets up to temp in about 3 minutes, I usually leave it on for about 5 minutes before I start printing, just to make sure the glass on top has fully absorbed the heat.
As far as adhesion, I use AquaNet hairspray, and it works great.
One note of caution, if you're going to go the PCB route, make sure the PCB bottom doesn't touch the Aluminum bed. Put some spacers in there, I used 1/16" thick cork and cut 5 little squares (corners and center of pad).
FYI, as long as you have a decent PSU (300W or better), you won't need a replay. The MOSFETs (the large vertical transistor behind the PCB heater and Hot end connectors) on the logic board are good enough to support a 10A draw (120W). The only reason to go the relay route is if you want to provide more power for faster heating.
To print or, 3D print, that is the question...
SD3 printer w/too many mods, Printrbot Simple Maker Ed., FormLabs Form 1+
AnyCubic Photon, Shining 3D EinScan-S & Atlas 3D scanners...
...and too much time on my hands.