Thanks for all the responses everyone. It's been a bit of a tough time for the family lately so I haven't had much time to work on this. Here's where I've gotten to.
I use Octopi to control my FDM printers so I figured I'd go straight for a nanodlp setup. I did a bunch of reading on the facebook groups and finally came to the conclusion that I should follow the instructions at https://3dprinterwiki.info/d7/easy-nano … ll-option/ including updating the firmware.
I let nanodlp update itself. I created a resin profile based on the settings from a Creation Workshop profile for the Wanhao red that came with my printer. I created a plate and let it complete processing in nanodlp. I did a dry run with the bed detached and the vat empty. It homed and then appeared to be projecting purple images onto the screen and all working correctly.
So last night, I levelled the plate, added some resin to the vat, hit print and put the cover on. An hour and a half later I had a dripping plate with nothing attached and apparently no cured resin at all in the vat. I'm stumped at this point. I tried re-imaging the pi and doing the same tests without updating nanodlp without any further luck.
I was going to try running from CW as a fallback. I have two older laptops running linux and CW under wine. Just my luck, the one with vga only output makes its com port available to CW under wine and controls the machine fine but can't send any images due to no hdmi. I have another laptop that can see the hdmi display but I can't get CW to see the comport for the D7. So at this point I'm stuck and will have to do some more reading / youtubing and figure it out I guess. Also trying to see if I can get at that comport by running CW under a windows instance running in virtualbox.
On the bright side, I did a little maintenance on my beat up old solidoodle this weekend and it is putting out some of the best prints of its life. Once again, a huge thank you to lawsy who commented in this thread and designed most of the mods that make that crappy old solidoodle sing. Also, I already watched your vids when doing my research. Thanks for sharing!
PS I found a 40W nail curing box on craigslist for $20 and will make a curing box from that.